Saturday, May 05, 2007

Unity Party

People always ask me if Alex and I fight about politics a lot, and are shocked when I say no. In addition to agreeing on a lot of the more important issues to me (social issues) and just having a general respect for each other's opinions, we also don't take it too seriously. I think this conversation is pretty indicative of how we approach the taboo subject:

Me: you're getting way too hippy on me
Me: this is not what i signed up for
Alex: you have to be the Republican now
Me: boo immigration
Alex: i say the more, the merrier
Me: they lead to crime and poverty
Me: build a wall!
Alex: Build??
Alex: Who wants to build anything.
Alex: Capitalist.
Alex: Mother Earth has given us all we need.
Me: you're just a lazy hippie, get a job
Alex: "jobs" are a socially-constructed tool of oppression by the elites.
Alex: Stop keeping me down!

Friday, May 04, 2007

True Blue Memories

Tomorrow will be the 2 year anniversary of my USAC election (which also means that next week will be the 2 year annivesary of Alex & me- coincidence, I think not). Seeing the pictures of this year's candidates and talking to people still around at UCLA about how this year's campaign is going made me incredibly nostalgic. Even though I wasn't a candidate last year, I was still around and heavily involved.

As stressful and emotional as campaigns were, it was such a great and unique experience. 12 hour days on Bruinwalk, seeing a huge 4 foot picture of your head on a banner on Bruinwalk, late night strategy sessions, slap bracelets, 8 claps, walkie-talkie with code names for our opponents.

And then there was the Dream Team. I wish I could find the pictures we used for the campaign, but here's one of most of us (minus Alex, Jesse, and Michelle) on our weekly post-council boba runs. And we couldn't have done it without our amazing campaigners/staffs, particularly my superstar Chief of Staff Liz 'Leo' Vega.

I guess it really isn't the campaign I miss as much as the people. Sure we made some contributions to the school; were they worth the time we put it into them, who knows. But some of the best people I met at UCLA were from USAC. I'm sure the kids (I'm allowed to call them kids because they were freshmen when I was a senior) running this year will feel the same in a few years.

Thursday, May 03, 2007

Real World Lessons

Reality television is my guilty pleasure. My mom contends that I like it because I'm a competitive person who loves watching the compeition. I say it's because I like mindless entertainment after studying all day; moreover, it makes my life feel more stable and "normal" in comparison. And, every once in a while, there will be pearls of wisdom. What reality television has taught me.

"Make It Work," -Tim Gunn, Project Runway
Naturally the best advice comes from the best reality show mentor of all time. No matter what crazy challenges come in your way or setbacks occur, it's all about pulling it out in the end.

"I'm not your b*tch, b*tch," -Chef Dave, standing up to Chef Tiffany at the judging panel, Top Chef
When someone tries to take credit for your work or interrupts you, you have to be like Chef Dave and assert yourself. And it paid off because he won that challenge.

"Let the world remember you," -Lil Kim, Search for the Next Pussycat Doll
Ok, it was more funny than anything, but I guess she does have a point about giving your all for everyone to see. And before you judge me for watching this show, I'm just one of 3.14 million who tuned in every week.

“I just want to tell you that some people have war in their countries," -Natasha, in response to Brittany's crying about how unfair it was that her cab driver didn’t follow the instructions she never gave him, America's Next Top Model
It seems like the contestants who have perspective make it farther in even scripted reality shows because they have more mental strength. Natasha's quote was particularly cute because she said it in a thick Russian accent. But she's right and there are things much worse in the world than getting DQ'ed from one challenge, and there are even things far worse than taking finals.

*This post is dedicated to my lovely roommate who has helped keep me sane this first year of law school by watching hours of reality tv with me and generally being a cool person.

Wednesday, May 02, 2007

Time Passes, Will You?

In the middle of a 24 hour take home final for my Public Law class. The only thing that I'll say is that the one downside of not being a procrastinator is that you're not used to the time crunch of writing 15+ pages in less than a day (that 24 hours includes the travel time of coming back and going to school).

On page 12, only have one more question to answer, and I have 12+ hours. I think I'll be ok and even get a good night's sleep.

Tuesday, May 01, 2007

5 Years Later

I had a mini-epiphany the other day that it's been half a decade since I graduated high school. To kill the time before my final this morning, I decided to make a Facebook Group for the Hart High School Class of 2002. I figured since we didn't have a real reunion planned, we could at least use the addition that is Facebook to have like a virtual reunion space. Nearly 40 people have joined so far, and it's crazy to see where everyone is, what they're doing, what they've done, or even who they're married to.

As for me, am I where I thought I would be 5 years ago? Yes and no. The bigger picture is pretty spot on: I knew that I wanted to go to law school and I'm pretty sure that even then I wanted to go to law school in DC. People probably even knew that I would be in a million clubs and run for student government in college (though I actually won in college, unlike for ASB President).

But a lot of the details inbetween high school and the path to the professional career are the things that even I, the ultimate planner, never saw coming. That I would become such a political junkie, take Vietnamese as a language, have a boyfriend who's white but really more asian than me, and even who I keep in touch with- lots of the people I thought I would be friends with forever I'm not and people I never thought I would talk to again are some of my closest friends today.

It's hard to assess who you were and if how you have changed over the years, but the people who knew you "back in the day" are probably some of the best resources in figuring that out. So I'm glad I made the group, even if it was out of boredom. I'm particularly happy to see old friends finding each other again and adding them as friends because of it. I can now say that I've fully completed my job as the ASB Class of 2002 Secretary.

[And yes, I did have a final today. I think it went fine. I have a 24-hour take home tomorrow...wish me luck]

Monday, April 30, 2007

Strict Scrutiny

When Brian Williams asked the candidates last week, at the the Democratic Presidential Debate, who their favorite Supreme Court Justice was, I thought it was random, funny, and a totally nerdy question I would love. Who knew that it would be stirring up so much news in little Democratic circles.

Former New Mexico Bill Richardson went first. He said Justice Byron "Whizzer" White (the studly many to the left), someone who was appointed by JFK and was a running back at University of Colorado. Apparently, a very unacceptable answer for Dems.

Though Justice White voted to strike down the law banning contraceptives (Griswold v. Connecticut), was one of the few justices who thought that gender discrimination should be subject to strict scrutiny (Frontiero v. Richardson), voted to strike down the death penalty (Furman v. Georgia), voted to uphold affirmative action (UC Regents v. Bakke, and others), Justice White still doesn't have street cred amongst Democrats. Why? Among his 994 decisions while he was one the Supreme Court, one of his opinions was dissenting in Roe v. Wade.

Admittedly, Richardson did a horrible job clarifying his anwer. Apparently when he was asked about it later, he said "White was in the 60s. Wasn't Roe v. Wade in the 80s?" which is wrong on both parts.

But I use Bill Richardson as a neutral example, someone I don't love or hate, of how we the people want candidates to be real but then nitpick at all their answers. Justice White was probably the first Justice who came to his mind, doesn't mean it's a subconcious slip revealing that would appoint a pro-life Justice to the Supreme Court if he were elected. As far as I know, Bill Richardson is clearly pro-choice. Not to mention, the 2nd Supreme Court Justice he cited was Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, a champion for women's rights and one of the few dissenters in the recent decision striking down partial birth abortion...but no one talks about that part of his answer.

Though Bill Maher's a little more out there politically than me, one of his "New Rules" a few weeks back sums up well the problems with how people view candidates:

New Rule: There's more to being smart than just not misspeaking. The world is a complicated place. Sometimes it all feels like a runaway train of violence, resentment and insecurity - sort of like a family reunion at Ryan O'Neil's place. Which is why for this next election, we need to pick the smartest candidate, not the dullest one who simply never had a verbal gaffe and said a wrong word or phrase. We're a superpower, not a drinking game. It has to be about leadership, not just hitting your buzzer first and remembering to phrase your answer in the form of a question. [the rest of the rule can be found here]

I don't think the electorate should lower their standards in picking a quality candidate, I just think that people need to realize that candidates aren't perfect. If we scrutinize every word they say, of course they're going to come out with canned, non-controversial answers, that we've heard a million times so they avoid nasty blogs, overblown stories on the 24 hour news cycle, or youtube videos being forwarded around. I don't think any influential past President, Democrat or Republican, could meet these lofty demands that have little to do with how someone will actually govern.

Off to bed before my Constitutional Law final where I'll actually have to write real things about all the cases I cited above.

Sunday, April 29, 2007

Four Until Freedom

This weekend Alex drove down to the University of Virginia for some Derby event where all the UVA kids dress up in sear-sucker suits and sundresses, eat fried chicken, and drink mint juleps. Very bourgie I know, but it sounded like so much fun, especially compared to studying for finals. As he called me during the day to say hi, I thought to myself "Is this how the rest of my life is going to be, people out having fun while I am stuck inside reading cases?"

Don't get me wrong, I do actually have some fun in my life. Going to out to dinner before the flurry of finals with a few friends today at a nice sit-down restaurant felt really good. However, it just seems like since January, it's been non-stop work. Not to scare or disappoint all the incoming 1L students, but I think second semester is actually harder than the first. Even "Spring Break" consisted of doing the short write-on competition.

This is why I'm really looking forward to going up to see Alex and I think we're going to spend a few days at Blue Mountain by the Adirondack Mountains (pictured left). Then we're going to drive down the coast and visit a few cities before reaching DC. Might not be a big foreign trip like some of my friends are taking, but being outside with no work to do is all I need. There is a light at the end of the tunnel; four finals and less than 2 weeks until I'm there.